Knowing very well that your partner loves you genuinely is the wish and dreams of couples and all those in relationships. No matter how great someone may be physically, unless he or she makes us feel a certain way, we won’t believe ourselves to be in love. The truth is the person you want to end up with is the person who makes you feel a certain way. But how exactly? We have some few tips for you.
You get worried about him or her
Not on purpose — you have to be careful with this. The person who tells you he or she loves you should not be the same person who makes you worry pointlessly. There are more than enough reasons to worry as is — you don’t need someone only adding more stress.
Not everyone loves his or herself — for some, it’s much more difficult than it is for others. Regardless of whether or not you love the person you are, having someone who loves you gives you a little extra reassurance.
This person should give you hope
This person gives you the hope that you won’t end up alone. Your partner should give you the hope that you can create for yourself the life you always dreamed of. But more than that, this person gives you hope in humanity. When you find someone you believe to be an incredible human being, you begin to have the hope that the world isn’t as dark and brutal a world as you’ve believed it to be. It gives the you hope that the world can be a world filled with love.
This person should make you feel secure
The feeling of security is arguably the most crucial in a relationship. Our lives are filled with uncertainty; that’s the way it has always been. In fact, evolution itself favored those who were the quickest to adapt to this uncertainty, to the inevitable and unknowable changes that occur every minute of every day. Nothing in life is secure because in the end, we lose all of it. But we’re not talking about the tangible world. We’re talking about feelings. The only partner who’s a keeper is one who makes you feel secure in the belief that he or she will never abandon you.
You feel at peace with yourself
It’s important to find the right person to share your life with because having the right person makes you the right person. It’s not that this person changes you — even though he or she often does – this person makes you appreciate the person you are. If you weren’t the person you are, then you probably would have never found each other — you have no choice but to be at peace with yourself and the life you’ve created for yourself
You feel like you cant Live without Him/Her
The feeling that you cant live without the other partner is a clear sign that he/She loves you very much. When your partner calls you more often when you are not there mean that he/she cares so much about you and the feeling of your absence alone makes him/her lonely and insecure. This is a clear sign that he/she is deep into you.
He/she wants to offer help/support without being asked for
When you are genuinely loved by your partner, he/she offer solutions or support when he/she is not even informed about your problem. This tells you that your partner truly cares for your total well being and welfare.
There are a lot of signs to know whether he/she loves you. But when you experience some of those above and more, just remember that your partner loves you genuinely.
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